fix(digitalocean): increase instance startup timeout to 600 seconds and add additional err checks (backport #125)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #125 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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	both modified:   core/go.mod
	both modified:   core/go.sum
	both modified:   core/provider/digitalocean/droplet.go
	both modified:   core/provider/digitalocean/task.go

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