fs: only show deprecation warning when error code matches

[aduh95]

The deprecation is only for invalid types, it could be confusing the warning show up for an unrelated error.

Refs: #55753

[BridgeAR]

I believe all Node.js errors should trigger the warning and only programmer errors in Node.js code should not be caught. Is that correct? We don't yet have such utility method to check that. We could however check for any error code existence. It should not exist on regular programmer errors.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 89.16%. Comparing base (529b56e) to head (6f62176).

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lib/fs.js	98.30% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 24 files with indirect coverage changes