src: use non-deprecated ares_set_servers_csv API

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Refs: #52464

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=== release test-dns ===
Path: parallel/test-dns
Error: --- stderr ---
node:assert:127
  throw new AssertionError(obj);
  ^

AssertionError [ERR_ASSERTION]: Expected values to be strictly deep-equal:
+ actual - expected

  [
    '4.4.4.4',
    '2001:4860:4860::8888',
    '103.238.225.181:666',
-   '[fe80::483a:5aff:fee6:1f04]:666',
-   'fe80::483a:5aff:fee6:1f04'
  ]

    at Object.<anonymous> (/home/runner/work/node/node/node/test/parallel/test-dns.js:137:8)
    at Module._compile (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1739:14)
    at Object..js (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1904:10)
    at Module.load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1473:32)
    at Function._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1285:12)
    at TracingChannel.traceSync (node:diagnostics_channel:322:14)
    at wrapModuleLoad (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:234:24)
    at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal/modules/run_main:151:5)
    at node:internal/main/run_main_module:33:47 {
  generatedMessage: true,
  code: 'ERR_ASSERTION',
  actual: [ '4.4.4.4', '2001:4860:4860::8888', '103.238.225.181:666' ],
  expected: [
    '4.4.4.4',
    '2001:4860:4860::8888',
    '103.238.225.181:666',
    '[fe80::483a:5aff:fee6:1f04]:666',
    'fe80::483a:5aff:fee6:1f04'
  ],
  operator: 'deepStrictEqual'
}

Node.js v24.0.0-pre
Command: out/Release/node --test-reporter=spec --test-reporter-destination=stdout --test-reporter=./tools/github_reporter/index.js --test-reporter-destination=stdout /home/runner/work/node/node/node/test/parallel/test-dns.js

I didn't get this failure locally (ran tools/test.py dns).

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 88.50%. Comparing base (bf3bc4e) to head (75c4298).

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   88.54%   88.50%   -0.04%     
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  Files         657      657              
  Lines      190765   190759       -6     
  Branches    36611    36602       -9     
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- Hits       168908   168832      -76     
- Misses      15036    15124      +88     
+ Partials     6821     6803      -18     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/cares_wrap.cc	60.72% <100.00%> (-4.52%)	⬇️

... and 34 files with indirect coverage changes