Add option to disable presence tracking for offline devices.

[sklamt]

This pull request adds the option offline_untracked to the presence.enabled configuration. This prevents synapse from updating the last_active_ts when receiving events from a client which is currently offline.

This would improve privacy by enabling users to decide whether they want their activity seen by other users with a shared room.

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[sklamt]

New PR with the same content but changed source branch name: #18140.