Use async sends in particle communication #5637

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GNU@12 C++17 w/o Fortran [tests]	54m 23s
GNU@13 C++17 3D Debug Fortran [tests]	48m 4s
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GNU Plotfile Tools [tools]	1m 55s
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GNU@13 C++17 [tests]	11m 24s
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